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aw thanks
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hahah exactly
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I know what she meant, its still stupid to think the only people against bdsm are people who have never read shit about it, I have a lot, and talked to a lot of people and I’m still against it. So maybe you are wrong lol
Just remember sweetheart, you’re mine. My toy, my pet, my good little slut, and I’m allowed to play with you however I like.
Some of you really need some really good therapy
And you need basic reading and comprehension skills. This was a post about gfd and said as much in the tags. No one is out here making random possessive sex posts and flinging it at anyone with eyes.
So because it’s directed at your sub it makes it more sane? lol
I hear there is really great online therapy for free now.
Hello, random uneducated person on Tumblr! Here to explain a bunch of things for you, so you might come to the conclusion that your opinion may be valid but it’s actually only that and not fact proven at all.
Calling someone “mine”, as in “my property - possessive behaviour towards any person is bad when it contains forbidding them to do/say certain thing, controlling them in their everyday life etc. In BDSM though a lot of subs simply find sexual pleasure from being shown that they belong to their dominant. Especially during scenes it just helps them let go - let go of their stress, their responsibilities, let go of everything that’s making them feel sad or bad. They can give themselves up completely. That’s why dominants calling their subs "mine/my property” during sessions is actually a very loving way of getting them into subspace and making sure they can really enjoy the play. It shouldn’t be used outside of that though to make them follow rules in everyday life, apart from sexual pleasure.
“Toy, pet, slut” - pet names are talked about before doms and subs come together to play. There are subs who don’t like degrading nicknames like whore, slut etc. and if they don’t then their dom won’t use them. There are a lot of subs who prefer loving, sweet nicknames like darling, honey, baby. It’s all part of the play though. After degrading dirty talk there’s always aftercare to make sure that the sub doesn’t forget that everything said and done to them to make them feel pleasure does not define their worth in any way.
“I’m allowed to play with you however I like” - there’s this big big thing that differentiates abuse from BDSM. It’s called consent. What Maxie means here (and everyone in the community is aware of that as well) is “I’m allowes to play with you in whatever ways we agreed upon before starting the session”. Subs and doms have hard limits, things they’re not comfortable with, things that don’t turn them on, things they simply don’t like or things that trigger anxiety etc. These things will never occur in a session. That’s why communication is the key to healthy BDSM. So it has literally nothing to do with rape. A dom won’t do anything that the sub specifically said they don’t want to be done to them. It’s all consensual. It only gets unhealthy when a submissive wants to get things done to them that make them re-live traumatic experiences in their past. People actuall get that urge, so it’s important that dominants also say “No” to that - and especially that doms know their sub well enough to know when they’re about to engage in unhealthy behaviour.
Hold up I’m getting my notepad.
